You Don't Have To Work Hard For A Man

My dear kingdom queen,

today I saw a couple and noticed that the woman was working so hard to please her man. 

And the man was not even responding. I felt something and I remember looking at her and saying to myself. 

If only she can realize that she is the prize and not him.This is how over giving works against you, it can come in so many ways.

Struggling with a dog while your guy has his hands in the pocket or throwing trash that he is supposed to do.

You start to walk on eggshells because you don’t want to give an indication that this relationship is not good for you.

So you over give and you keep quiet because you want to be liked and not make trouble. You want to win the prize of over giving in a way.

The truth is the man does not even deserve it in most cases and when your worst fears come true, the guy just disappears or leaves you wondering what really happened.

No matter whom you are with, you are never a priority. Your needs are ignored or never count. Losing you has no effect on them because they quickly move on.

This is a pattern that you have developed for yourself. So how do you get out of this pattern? 

The first thing you need to do is ask yourself, am I being lead by the Holy Spirit or am I just doing it by myself.?

proverbs 3:5-6

”Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”

This includes marriage.

You can not keep repeating your negative patterns in love and expert a different result, it just never works.

In my one on one coaching program, I will take you through the 6 steps that will shift your vibe. 

Show up in a way that is attractive to your kingdom man identify false beliefs that are holding you back, how you want to be treated and unleash the power of the Holy Spirit and be irresponsible.

Acts 1:8

”You will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes upon you”.

Book a discovery call and I will see you there.

Love Angela